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Tuesday, March 30, 2004

 When it rains, it pours

There’s got to be some kind of Cosmic Break-up Energy that zips out into the universe when a woman ends a relationship, I swear. In the 5 days since I broke up with Dalemar, I’ve had no less than 4 guys - who I haven’t heard from for anywhere from a week or so, to a couple of years - get in touch with me out of the blue. And two of them were within 3 hours of me getting home from the actual break-up!

Admittedly, only one of those guys flat-out propositioned me…but the other three have made it moderately clear that if I were to consider getting naked in their presence, they wouldn’t hesitate to follow their natural inclinations.

So, the results of this influx of attention…there’s at least one visit-for-catching-up date on the agenda with an old pal & SCA lover who I haven’t seen in a couple years, another get-together-and-chat date with another dear old friend & former lover who I haven’t talked to in several months (just from us both being busy), and an invitation from an online friend for a fun weekend away that I haven’t decided about yet. Oh, and that propositioning I mentioned, too.

I just haven’t figured out yet how interested I am in enjoying the various delightful distractions offered me…


2 Responses to “When it rains, it pours”

  1. laura Says:

    well, if that isn’t an arguement for the power of subconcious vibes, i don’t know what is… LOL!!!

    i’m certain you didn’t mean to advertise to the universe you were ‘available,’ but looks like a few people got a hint! :)

  2. Matisse Says:

    Yes, I’ve noticed this phenomenon as well. It is interesting, isn’t it? I don’t know if it’s as much about the universe thinking you’re really ready and available as perhaps a “don’t despair” message.

    Not that breakups don’t suck no matter how many other cuties you have chasing you. They do. Sorry you’re having to deal with this one.

    M.

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